I had a request come in through customer service that someone wanted to start coaching with me, but first she had some questions about what I have created in my life.

So I made a very quick list of all the “things” that I have manifested over the last seventeen years such as:

My soul mate, Frederic
My two amazing boys, Alexander and Maxim
My dream home (three times)
My ideal car (three times)
A multi-million dollar business out of the comfort of my own home
My ideal body (health and ideal weight) and much more!

And then she wanted to know if I had created anything other than “material” things.

I giggled when I received that question because if you understand the universal laws, specifically the Law of Attraction and the Law of Sufficiency and Abundance, you know that there first has to be the manifestation of feelings and emotions (essence) in order to attract all the material things.

And sometimes there is inner work that needs to be done that results in a healing, a shift, or a new way of thinking or believing.

In each of the examples above, I remember deliberately finding the feeling place of each one. I remember making that vibration so dominant that it became my reality.

My soul mate, Frederic – connection and love
My two amazing boys, Alexander and Maxim – purpose, love, connection
My dream home (three times) – space, abundance, luxury
My ideal car (three times) – success, luxury
A multi-million dollar business out of the comfort of my own home. – purpose and passion
My ideal body (health and ideal weight) and much more! – well-being

So for anything that manifests, it first must start with something that is not material. The reason that we want to attract, manifest, or create anything in our lives is that we think we will have a certain experience or feeling once we have it. And this is exactly the opposite of what we are taught, trained, or even conditioned to understand in our society.

So my point to all of this is that if you want to manifest anything, you must first find the feeling of it in order to attract it.

Whether it is a physical thing that you can see, touch, smell, taste, or hear, there must be a vibrational match to it; therefore, the manifestation starts with the feeling or essence of that creation. Because you are feeling or experiencing it without something physical yet, that is the manifestation.