Poor Khloe Kardashian! Turns out her ex James Harden was cheating on her. Does this sound like a broken record or what? HollywoodLife.com reached out to top relationship experts to find out the signs of cheaters and how to find true love.

Why is Khloe continually attracting these types of men into her life? Relationship expert Christy Whitman explains The Keeping Up With The Kardashian star’s poor choices stem from her childhood. “Everything we attract into our lives comes from our beliefs and programming. Khloe’s mom cheated on her dad. Seeds are planted and it becomes a possibility of it happening to her, especially if she identified with her dad over her mom. Then she has a relationship and then when it happens once, another belief and therefore expectation is created. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.” So sad!

Christy goes on to explain that Khloe will continue to attract men like this until she creates a new vision for herself. “We attract from the vibrations we give out plain and simple. Focus on what you want, rather than on what you don’t want. Remember you get what you focus on, even if it’s not what you want. Be mindful. It’s called the Law of Attraction!”

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