What do you allow to take you away from your power?
You know each one of us is connected to our well-being and joy. We all have access to that power and connection to God/Goddess/All-That-Is. I know for myself, when I am in alignment with that higher me, I am so happy and joyful. Things manifest in my life with ease and elegance. I am so free and my days just flow beautifully.
But there are things that have the potential of taking me away from that empowered and joyful space. Sometimes I allow people, or a mindset, or even a circumstance, take me away from that joy. But ultimately it is up to me to allow or disallow my power. It is up to me to decided, and determine where I am giving my power away.
So what allows you to be taken from your power? Is it your work? Do you go to work feeling happy and then one encounter with a co-worker or your boss knocks you off? Or maybe you are looking for work, and can’t seem to find the job you are looking for? Maybe it is your relationship with money? You feel fine and then an unexpected bill comes in?
What about the people in your life? Do you come home from a good day of work and then your partner comes home and you find yourself in a crabby mood? Or maybe it is your children, parents, or even the in-laws? (Don’t you sometimes wish they could give you a warning ahead of time?)
Is it your friends? Are they not behaving in the way you want them to?
In all of these situations or circumstances, we have the power to choose. We can either be taken off course by giving our attention to what others are doing, and therefore lose our own footing, or we can continue to choose to be empowered regardless of what is happening in our lives.
There are two powerful processes that I use all the time in my own life. First, find your connection to your well-being. I usually do this by meditating, or just taking time to connect with the feeling of joy. It is always there and available to us regardless of what is going on outside of us. If you have ever felt joy before, that emotion is always available to you. Connect with that joy and then imagine the person, circumstance or energy in front of you. Practice staying neutral to this “thing” that takes you away your power. When you can imagine this “thing” in front of you, and continue to focus on your own energy and power, the energy of the other “thing” transforms. When you observe things in your life as just energy, rather than the form, or your reaction to the form, or even your thoughts or judgments about them, you are in a place of being able to transform the unwanted energy. You can work with relationship issues, abundance issues, or anything that is taking your joy away by working with energy. We will be doing this in an amazing process at the Goddess Weekend in July. To sign up click here
The second process that I use that is so effective is the 4 Steps to Change. These four steps are important to learn and implement, because it allows you to take your power back and step into being that deliberate creator.
You have the power to make these changes and to become neutral to the things that take you away from that power. Start with the small things that are not as energetically charged. Once you develop the skill with the smaller things then move onto the things that are a deeper issue for you, or have more of an energetic charge to them. This will help you have more confidence in your ability to shift the energy, and create your life the way you desire.